Ok, here goes... I have been considering taking the Mirena out for a couple months. My boyfriend did a lot of research on it before i got it, and tried to talk me out of it. BUT I am too "independent" and had to have it. I like the idea of no periods to worry about, no pills to remember and all the spur of the moment fun I can handle. Problem is that I have become so moody and my libido has gone to zero and I am actually disgusted at the thought (NEVER A PROBLEM before-know what I mean!!) of spur of the moment anything. And then last week I found myself especially tired and my breasts were so heavy and sore, not to mention huge that I couldnt believe it. I had some pretty painful cramping and went to the bathroom and out it came. Not the Mirena, but a little embryo- or at least what I think was one. It was small with a black dot and a little cord of blood with it. Has this happened to anyone else?

I am having it removed next week. It was the first appointment I could get. I dont want to have kids right now, someday, maybe, but the thought of purposly keeping a child from growing disturbs me.

So this is my real question, how do I/ or do I tell my boyfriend?

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