I have the same problem. I wish that we idn\'t have to pay to get all the help wanted and needed to feel good...look good. I am told that I am skinny, but I\'m the judge of that. I want to have a perfect body with abs...I used to when I went to taekwon do every day, but since I\'ve stopped, I\'m just jello. I guess I\'m to lazy to put any effort to loosong. How do I make time every day so that my but can be hard as a rock and not like a pillow.